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When Loss is Personal, by Cindy

When Loss is Personal, by Cindy

Jun 8, 2019

Last Wednesday afternoon, I received a phone call with the shocking news that a dear friend and colleague had died unexpectedly.  He was out of town with his beloved wife when he collapsed on the stairs at a museum, dying instantly of a massive heart...

Another Touching Story by Susan

Another Touching Story by Susan

May 5, 2019

I arrive at the home at the scheduled time to provide massage for a cancer patient and his caregiver. Patient is resting so I begin by massaging the caregiver, his wife. We do the intake, start the music, put bergamot essential oil in her diffuser,...

25 Gift Ideas for Someone with Advanced Illness

25 Gift Ideas for Someone with Advanced Illness

Feb 22, 2019

It can be hard to know what to say, what to do, what to bring to the bedside of someone who is seriously ill.  Here are some of the items that we’ve noticed our patients seem to appreciate and use. A nice night light for...

A Salute to Our Mentors

A Salute to Our Mentors

Jan 11, 2019

At the risk of embarrassing Gayle MacDonald, this post is all about her.  And others like Gayle, whom we credit with making us the professionals we are today. Cindy says: Unbeknownst to her, Gayle became my mentor in 1999 when I stumbled upon the first...

Why Do Comorbidities Matter?

Why Do Comorbidities Matter?

Sep 20, 2018

Patients on palliative or hospice care all have a primary diagnosis.  In hospice care, this is also known as the terminal diagnosis.  The terminal diagnosis helps us to adjust our massage session in a manner such that the session is safe for the patient.  For...

Alzheimer’s Disease:  It’s Complicated

Alzheimer’s Disease: It’s Complicated

Jul 19, 2018

The Activity I recently had the opportunity to participate in a Virtual Dementia Tour. Here’s how it worked:  I signed a waiver and walked into a dimly lit room. Upon entering I see several tables as in a conference-type room. Four were positioned for the...

Nothing Less than the Whole Person

Nothing Less than the Whole Person

Jun 29, 2018

By the time we meet many of our clients, they’ve lost a lot.  They may have lost their hair, their muscle mass, their breasts, their jobs, their mobility, their independence, control of their bladders, control of their bowels, the ability to speak for themselves.  They...

Massage – There Ought to be Another Word for What You Do

Massage – There Ought to be Another Word for What You Do

Jun 18, 2018

“There ought to be another word for what you do.” This comment came from a Rabbi in his late 70’s who received a massage as a hospice patient several weeks before his death.  He’d received a number of massages in his life, he said, but...

It’s NOT About Me, How to Keep From Taking it Personally

It’s NOT About Me, How to Keep From Taking it Personally

Apr 19, 2018

I’ve been providing massage for 12 years. I LOVE my work. I’ve had clients come and go. Sometime you only see someone for one massage. You never really know why they don’t return. Maybe they moved away. Maybe they can’t budget regular massage at this...

Shorter, Slower, Softer – One Patient’s Story

Shorter, Slower, Softer – One Patient’s Story

Apr 4, 2018

She didn’t look like she needed to be in bed.  But there she sat, texting on her cell phone, fully dressed in country club attire.  Sharon, in her late 70’s, had piercing blue eyes, a healthy tan and a megawatt smile.  When I introduced myself...

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